I was also like that when I read about his girlfriend dumping him and choosing yaoi instead, he must feel so miserable that I sorta understand him...poor thing.

Yes, respect is the crucial word...which is so hard for me to see there...I haven't read anything yet by any yaoi fangirls against nonyaoi people...so far, I wouldn't be stranged to see it sometime soon. I guess some people might hacve said something already, again, where's the tolerance to difference?