As you said, it's completely ok to disagree with something, in this case, yaoi. But when the group that disagrees recurs to calling names, I think it's time to go away. There's no way to debate a subject with a fundamentalist mind; there's no way to make them see why they are wrong, because the more you try, the more they get annoyed and lose objectivism. *shakes head*

Anyway, I think there's no need to point out that yaoi fans also enjoy stories about heterosexual couples and thus, we're not heterophobic, etc, etc.

Ah, some people's attitude... *laughs*