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Ariadne ([personal profile] ariadnem) wrote2005-06-17 12:17 pm

Rant and more rant

Whoever reads my LJ would think I'm not a happy person.  I rant too much, I complain about things too much, I let some things get to me too easily.  Contrary to all that, I am a happy person.  I have a wonderful husband.  An incredible pet and a very good life.  However there are things that get to me.  I can't help it.  *sigh*

Now, I feel again like I can't say anything here...I don't like that feeling surrounding me.  I've already deleted a blog and stopped writing in another as to stop doing it here.  I thought I could feel safe here...what a lie that has been...it seems I can't.

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[EDIT]One thing, everyone who's commented here has told me about what I write. That is not a problem for me. I guess if people don't want to read whatever is here, they just go to another place where they might feel more comfortable; the things is, and the point that has been bothering me is that I don't want to be scolded in my own place. I can't take that. I won't. When I said that I felt like I couldn't say anything here, was because of that; because I feel like I'm going to be scolded and I'll answer bad to that. If you guys, feel fine coming and reading whatever I have to say, I thank you for that; for your support and all the good things you always say to me; and you're always more then just welcome. I love having you around, getting to know a little bit more about me.

I won't simply allow someone to come and hurt me by nagging me as if I were a child. Sorry, I'm too old for that; and not even my mamma does that. This is my point. No scolding. I'm too respectful as to do it and too proud as to accept it.

[identity profile] cygny.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 10:49 am (UTC)(link)
Oh sweetie, don't you stop writing. I mean, LJ is all about ranting and whining. Don't stop because you think that people might think anything about you. If they don't want to read, they're not obliged. It'd be a terrible loss not to have you here anymore, I'd miss you! And you know, underneath the rants and stuff, the way you write all that, it doesn't show a non-happy person. *hugs*

[identity profile] ariadnem.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 11:22 am (UTC)(link)
I don't mind what a lot of people think about me. I guess the ones who are in my flist are people I can trust. What I don't like is being scolded for what I write; I mean, isn't this place for exorcising my demons and even having a little fun??? That's what I just don't get. *sigh*
It's SO good to have you around. Thanks for commenting precisely when I needed it the most.
*hugs back*

[identity profile] sagakure.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 11:05 am (UTC)(link)
Your LJ is your LJ, and you should have the right to write absolutely anything you want! ^^ If people don't want to read a rant about something in particular, then they should not read it! I don't think it's correct for someone to read and then complain, considering how it's your journal and you should be able to write what you feel/think/etc in it. ^^/

I'll repeat what Cigny said, I hope you won't close your LJ because of that! ^^/
If you don't want everybody to read certain entries, have you considered making different filters for some of your entries? ^^/

[identity profile] ariadnem.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 11:24 am (UTC)(link)
*sigh*

I already told you about this in a previous entry...I'm feeling too tired...anyway.

Thanks again, Dearest. I'll check the options for the filters and began using them. ^^/

[identity profile] sagakure.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 12:15 pm (UTC)(link)
^_^/ Filters can be handy! (<--Although I seldom use them myself, *lol*)

[identity profile] ariadnem.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Have to learn how to use them, though, hehehehehe

[identity profile] lady-hook.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm with sagakure and cygny: this is your lj so you're entitled to write what you feel you need,you don't have to be thinking maybe if I write this or that some people will think this or that of me...If someone feels offended by what s/he reads at your journal then better he shouldn't do it!!Just be yourself and write what you feel,here we are to be with you!!!!!
Na, don't worry,here at lj we all get our moods out and express all our anxieties, frustrations,depressions and so on 'cos we NEED it. Not the attention, but the fact of writing it down and seeing then...and once you feel alright again you can delete the pessimistic post (it would be delightful to be able to do it in real life...)or simply look at it again days after and think wtfh was I thinking to write this??? XDD
But yes,the filter is a good idea...if someone is just complaining about your more personal rants you can use it,but this is your lj so you write what you want!!!! ^^3

[identity profile] ariadnem.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 06:10 pm (UTC)(link)
This is my LJ, yes, however, some people believe that just because they're my friends, they can come here and scold me, which is what I don't like. I believe that just because you're my friends. you understand my rants and won't judge them or me. That's what I really hate.
And yes, never thought about it until Sagakure mentioned it, I guess filters will do just fine.
^^

[identity profile] scorpioyue.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 05:48 pm (UTC)(link)
To me, LJ exists to write nonsense. I'd be ashamed to post stupid thoughts on my website, but being free of doing it here... *bliss* I could make thousand of posts full of useless things and no one could tell me to shut up, 'cause my lj is my personal space! Summarizing, if people don't like it, they can choose not to read and period. And if you want to delete somehting, well do it! See how lovely is freedom? Filters are good too. ^^

[identity profile] ariadnem.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 06:12 pm (UTC)(link)
To me, Lj is a way of exorcising my inner demons. They're ugly...really ugly, I just don't get why someone will come and treat me as a child ¬¬ I'm too old for that crap...*sigh*
Delete...yes, that's a good option. Also are filters...muajajajaja
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look...

[identity profile] milosflaca.livejournal.com 2005-06-17 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Journals, are made for that. For endless rant.
I don't freaking care what other people think of my journal.
That's what I have the damned thing for.
Sure, sometimes I, myself get to a point of exagerating things and stuff, but I know that if I do, you guys will pull me to earth again.
As easy as that.
I don't care if you rant in your journal. I do that a lot too.

Re: look...

[identity profile] ariadnem.livejournal.com 2005-06-18 08:48 am (UTC)(link)
I really don't care if people like my lj or not. It's mine, period. What I can't stand is that they come here and scold me. NO freaking way! that's what I hate, especially from "friends"

[identity profile] muinteor.livejournal.com 2005-06-18 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
I know you are a happy person, my friend. You have a wonderful life, and everything is going so well.

This LJ of yours is wonderful. It's like the Marggy-news.

I tune in every day to see how my friend is doing.

We're here for the good and the bad, to cheer you on during the good times and to cheer you up during the bad times.

Don't you think about what others will think when you write here.

Be yourself, please. Write whatever comes to mind.

I understand everything you write here, and I'd like to think that you're not holding something back for fear of offending someone.

This is your place, only yours, no one else's.

You are safe here. It is not a lie. You can say whatever you want here, and your friends will listen.

No fear, okay?

You write what you want, and don't you stop.

May the words of Marggy go on forever!

[identity profile] didio.livejournal.com 2005-06-22 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
El primer paso hacia la felicidad consiste en soltar un buen exorcismo a nuestros propios demonios.

Y el LJ es un buen lugar, sobre todo porque algunos de nosotros estamos mas que dispuestos a ayudarte a palizarlos.

Además, si no tienen nada mejor que hacer con su neurona que venir a molestar... pues vaya neurona mas solitaria.

Prueba el yoga marciano (lo conocí gracias a los comics de la Liga de la Justicia). Consiste en gritar.

No te imagino, pero se que eres capaz, de esto y de mucho mas.